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August 2022 Grocery Spending Wrap Up

August 2022 Grocery Spending Wrap Up

We continued to work on our grocery budget for August 2022 with a goal of $600. I wasn’t sure if we could make it this month but we came closer than last month at $709.79. We definitely ate better this month and a large chunk […]

July 2022 Final Grocery Spending

July 2022 Final Grocery Spending

We were out of a lot of staples for July so I knew we would have an expensive month for groceries. We are still working hard at keeping our food budget well under $1,000 by watching prices more carefully, eating up what we have and […]

My Favorite Dystopian Novels

My Favorite Dystopian Novels

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Welcome to our list of favorite dystopian novels. I am a huge fan of any dystopian novels and have been trying to read more of them now that we are regularly going to the library so I will keep adding to this as I read more. This list is by no means exhaustive so please leave a comment if you have a book to recommend!

 

The Girl With All the Gifts by M. R. Carey – This book really threw me for a loop when I read it because the premise is somewhat believable. It follows Melanie who is a talented girl on how she discovers who she is and how much bigger the world really is. There is also a movie adaptation which was decent but you should really read the book first because the way Melanie’s discovery about the school she goes to is rushed in the movie and very well written in the book. The movie is available on Prime Video and can be found here.

 

The Silo Saga: Wool, Shift, Dust, and Sil0 Stories by Hugh Howey

The three part series Wool, Shift and Dust is about a group of people living in bunkers in a post-apocalyptic world. These books are well written and the titles are incredibly accurate as to how information about the bunkers is revealed to it’s inhabitants. These books are not so likely to happen but they are a great read and you can’t help feeling for the characters and the predicament they are in. I have not read the Sil0 Stories yet but I am going to find a copy to see what they are about.

 

Day Zero by C. Robert Cargill – Written during a time when AI is all around and kids are taken care of by nanny bots this book is written from the perspective of a high end tiger nanny bot named Pounce who navigates saving his human while fighting off his fellow robots that are trying to take over the world. I love that this book was written from the perspective of a self-aware robot and not the humans it was trying to protect. It looks like C. Robert Cargill also wrote a book called Sea of Rust that I will have to check out as well.

 

The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood – The Handmaid’s Tale is a pretty popular TV series but it is based off of the book by Margaret Atwood which is excellent. Offred is a handmaid to an affluent man in the new world of Gilead where the bible is taken very literally. Infertility is a huge issue and those that can bear children are enslaved by the wealthy elite.

 

Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury – I will put this one on here although many people have read this book. Fahrenheit 451 is a classic about a world where books are banned and firemen light fires instead of putting them out. It follows Guy as he discovers there may be more to life than being a fireman.

 

The Giver by Lois Lawry – I will be totally honest and tell you I did not read this book until I was well into adulthood and my oldest daughter was reading it for middle school but I did read it in one night it was so good. The Giver is about Jonas who is coming of age in a world where everyone feels content in their pre-assigned roles. Jonas is given a glimpse into what was before and begins to question his world. There is a movie that goes along with the books that is pretty well done and can be found on Prime here.

Making this list of books reminded me that I need to read the other books in this series. It looks like there are four total and the whole set can be found here.

 

Parable of the Sower by Octavia E. Butler – Now I have not read these books but they have been highly recommended to me by multiple people so I am going to include them in my list. It looks like they are about a girl navigating her world after climate change has altered earth which is right up my alley. I plan on reading them in the next few months so let me know in the comments if you have read them and how you like them.

 

There are so many more books out there I could not include them all but I will update this list as I read more. Please let me know your dystopian book recommendations in the comments and happy reading!

 

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June 2022 Final Grocery Spending

June 2022 Final Grocery Spending

Our June grocery goal was to eat through our fridge and freezer as much as possible and for the most part we reached this goal. I am super proud of our progress! Up until the last week of June we kept our spending under $300 […]

Our Favorite Board Books

Our Favorite Board Books

To compliment our summer reading lists for first and third graders I made the below list of our favorite board books for younger kids. We still read many of these books to our kids even though they are way past the board book phase!   […]

Summer Reads for Rising 3rd Graders

Summer Reads for Rising 3rd Graders

Summer is upon us and since I get a lot of asks on what my kids are reading I thought I would put together a summer reading list for rising third graders to compliment the one I created for rising first graders. This is a list of books for kids that are able to read chapter books on their own but need a bit more of a challenge than what the first chapter books offer. This list is by no means exhaustive so please, leave a comment with books that your rising third graders love to read as well!

 

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Choose Your Own Adventure: These classic books each take you on a different adventure. There are multiple choice pages where you choose which direction the story will take next. My kids like to try all of the different paths to see which ones work and which ones don’t for multiple readings per book.

 

 

 

Kitty and the Moonlight Rescue: I came across this series when looking for cat books for my 8yo to read and she loves them. They are about a girl whose mom is a super hero. My daughter loves the adventure and I love that they are low key and well written with an emphasis on family.

 

 

Unicorn Academy: My 8yo loves these books. She is a huge fan of unicorns and I found these better written than some of the other mass market series that are out there. The books go through adventures with girls learning how to care for their unicorns which are all unique with different needs.

 

The Secret Garden: This unabridged classic is a favorite in our house. My kids loved to listen to the descriptions of the places that Mary went and the mystery of the garden kept them enthralled.

 

Please note: There is some colorful language at the start of the book but I spent quite a bit of time talking about it when we first read it to make sure they understood it wasn’t ok to use the words in the book. We do this for a lot of books and I am a firm believer that talking about inappropriate language or content and how times were different when the books were written and how we have changed is much better in the long run than not exposing children to those discussions at all. We also talk in the same way about modern issues as a way to keep the dialog open.

 

I Survived the Sinking of the Titanic, 1912These graphic novel series are a favorite in our house. They tell about history in a way that kids like and the pictures are not too graphic. Our favorite is the one on the Titanic since that seems to be a fascination in our house.

 

 

A Biography Series for New Readers: We also love these biography books and have read several. They are great because if your kid is into something, like Hamilton the musical or is covering a subject in school like the elections you can find a book in the series to supplement what they are interested in.

 

Magic Puppy Series: My daughter the animal lover really likes these books. They are about a magic wolf puppy that has to live with humans to survive. The are similar to other mass market paperback books but if your kid loves puppies, these are the books for you!

 

 

Of course, there are many other books out there that will fit the bill but this list is what my kids are into right now.

 

Summer Reads for Rising First Graders

Summer Reads for Rising First Graders

Summer Reads for Rising First Graders

With summer starting I thought I would make a list of some of our favorite book series to read over the summer. I just graduated my third kindergartener and a lot of the other moms in my youngest’s class have been asking me for book […]

May 2022 Final Grocery Spending

We are working on our grocery spending for 2022 and our goal for May was to do a low spend month. Unfortunately we ended up a little bit swamped during the middle of the month and we both spent too much money and I did […]

June 2022 Spending Goals and Mid-Year Check In

June 2022 Spending Goals and Mid-Year Check In

Our 2022 spending goals have already gone a little bit sideways with me leaving the workforce in March. I left my job for both health and family reasons and it has thrown our budget into a hurricane of uncertainty. For now our goal is to spend as little as possible across the board so I can continue to not work through at least the end of the year. I read over our 2022 Spending Goals and for the most part we have been sticking to them except for me bumping up my 401k. June is a good time for us to review and revise our goals and this year is no exception.

Below are our goals for the year with a new recap:

  1. Max out IRAs – Mine is done. My husband still needs to max his out but we may have to wait until we get his bonus next year.
  2. Increase our 401k contributions – We increased my husband’s by 1% in March and hope to keep it there until the end of the year. I no longer have a 401k since I am not working.
  3. Save, save save. We reinstated our automatic savings, upped our investment amounts and increased our kids’ college savings amounts. Now that I am not working we may have to reduce our regular savings BUT we do have a nice chunk in our cash emergency fund already so it should be ok.
  4. Decrease our grocery spendingWe have been working on this all year. We did both a pantry and freezer clean out, tried a no spend month and meal planning. This is still a work in progress but we are doing another freezer clean out for June and are making progress.
  5. Be more mindful of our spending – We continue to work on our mindful spending. I have been resisting the urge to buy clothes for the kids and trying to do laundry more often but they are growing so fast it is hard to keep up. We are also not shopping as often which greatly reduces the temptation to pick things up randomly.
Free Lunches.
Free Lunches.

We are also taking advantage of the last couple of months of free universal lunches and breakfasts. I linked our latest video below and here.  This program ends in June but I firmly believe that all kids should be receiving lunch at schools for free without the stigma that is attached to it when only low income kids receive it. Getting lunches from the school has helped our budget out tremendously and as I discovered this week, they are giving tons of extra food to help families out over the summer when the program is no longer available. I am really hoping another bill passes so that all kids can have free meals again. Grocery prices have increased significantly over the past year and a lot of families that do not qualify for assistance are struggling.

 

Our budget resets every July since we pay tuition for the kids only 10 months out of the year. We usually don’t get a tuition statement with the exact amount of the payments until mid-June. I put an estimate of the amount when we get the tuition amounts in February and look at our spending for the rest of the year. This year since I am not working we do qualify for a little bit of financial aid but we are still going to have a very tight budget. We knew this though when we decided that I would leave my job and have cut our spending on vacations and activities with the kids (not their regular sports yet). We also did not sign up for summer camp every week of the summer which saved us nearly $5,000. Summer camp is super expensive and this year the prices definitely went up.

Camping at Whidbey.
Camping at Whidbey.

Instead of taking a bunch of expensive trips we are going to be doing day trips and camping out at my dad’s house on Whidbey. Camping out there is nearly free and I absolutely love that the kids are growing up helping my dad build his cabin and develop a place for family to hang out for years to come. We are putting them to work helping with clearing the land and planting some crops for my dad to harvest later. My oldest is also starting her cabin building out there this summer so the kids will help with that as well.

Beach
Beach view.

Some of our day trip ideas so far include hiking, the beach and visiting local parks. Mr. Oscoey has a bunch of PTO to use up so he is going to take some time off as well this summer so we can do some trips as a family during the week when everything is less crowded. I may break down and find a couple of days down in Oregon later this summer but it will depend on how we do for our spending in June and July. For now we are planning on staying local and as frugal as possible.

 

How are you cutting back your spending this year?

 

2022 Goals

 

Garden Update 04.30.22

Free School Lunches

Free School Lunches

The past couple of months I have been trying to raise awareness that the funding for free lunch and breakfast for all kids in the United States was not renewed in March and the program will end in June of 2022. This program has helped […]


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